Tuesday, January 1, 2013

Positive Thinking For A Healthy Lifestyle


Positive thinking creates a mind concept of being happy, healthy and successful. It’s an attitude that changes how we deal with our daily life. It also helps eliminate stess that is so harmful to a healthy lifestyle.

Can we make it a habit?


Your feelings and beliefs are the foundation of your inner thoughts. Whether you realize it or not, you control your thoughts.

When you’re optimistic, your mental attitude expects good results. When you’re negative, your mentality changes and you expect the worse.

The biggest difference in people that are optimistic or pessimistic is their mental attitudes. Their approach to every day life is completely different.

The Power of Positive Thinking and the Reflections of Being Positive

Positive thoughts give you a healthier life. Your interaction with others is affected by your attitude. When your attitude is positive, you bear fruit accordingly.
  • Improved relationships
  • Health
  • Inner peace
  • Acceptance of others
  • You try new things
  • You face challenges with less stress
  • Your self esteem is much higher
  • You have more energy

Changing Your Negative Thoughts – Practice Makes Perfect

Changing negative thoughts takes some effort and concentration. It will take practice to undo a “habit” you’re accustomed to, but it’s very doable.
  • Listen to your thoughts.
  • When a negative thought starts to enter your mind, immediately replace it with positive thinking.
  • Start replacing words such as “can’t” with “can”, “impossible” with “possible” until it becomes a natural habit.
  • Be persistent, don’t give up on changing your thoughts.
  • Visualize your thoughts. Instead of “I can’t get this job,” see yourself doing that job and saying “I can get this job.”
  • Make a commitment to yourself to overcome negativity.
  • Develop a strategy for dealing with negativity.
  • Don’t be afraid to challenge yourself. You are in control of you.
  • Set goals for yourself, write them down, visualize them and be affirmative about them.
  • Look for positive people to be around.
  • Do things you enjoy that make you happy.
  • Nourish your body with good nutrition and physical activity.

Thinking positively doesn’t necessarily mean you expect everything to always turn out perfect. But I believe that it means you are more likely to succeed because you don’t give up as easily.

Monday, December 31, 2012

A Healthy Lifestyle With A Job You Love


Loving you job is a key to a healthy lifestyle. But what is you have a job that you hate, and where of you find the perfect job for you?

How would you define a ‘job you love’?


It’s the kind of job you would have even if you didn’t need to earn anything? If that seems too idealistic, in realistic terms, finding a job that strongly matches your skills, knowledge, personality and values makes all the difference between drudgery and engaged activity.

It also helps to know that you don’t have to have a job you love hundred per cent of the time – about two days a week will do the trick, and be a big factor to a healthier lifestyle.

One of the toughest things about finding work you like is identifying what will make you happy and what you´re good at. How can you work out where your talents and interests lie?

Number one, consider what skills you exercise, where you do things well, and what you enjoy doing. These are your motivated skills, and if you can use eighty per cent of these skills eighty per cent of the time you’re on a good track to finding the job you love, and to a healthier lifestyle.

Number two, and an important area is knowledge – not the stuff you learnt at school or college, but whatever you have chosen to learn about in your spare time – what do you enjoy talking and reading about?

When jobcoaches talk mysteriously about ‘finding your passion’ they really mean something that you are happy to live and breathe with seven days a week.

What’s the ideal job hunting or career change mindset?

Learn how to handle rejection. No matter how good your CV, statistically more people will say ‘no’ to you than ‘yes’. Without care, this will quickly affect your job search strategy and cause you to lower your ambitions

Learning how to make a comeback after a rejection means having people around you who can remind you what you’re good at and help you keep making connections.

Don’t allow yourself to stay down for long– put on good business clothes and go and see somebody for a face to face meeting at least once a week. And keep curious – the next great idea may be just around the corner.

What can we do if we’ve identified a career we think we’d love, but it requires a significant period of re-training (and possibly no income)?


Interestingly, retraining is usually one of the big reasons people put forward for not doing anything about career change, and yet in fact there are very few careers that absolutely require someone to begin with a particular qualification.

Another problem with retraining is that it can mean you put off career decisions for a year or two before emerging with a new qualification, but little idea how to use it. Ask around – find out what on-the-job training opportunities might be available, and how others have moved into a sector without having the obvious pieces of paper.

Can we change our own attitude so that we can make more of the job we’re in?

Absolutely. With many of my clients I suggest that they look at the downside – is it the role, the team, the organisation, or the line manager? Sometimes you can fix the issue that bothers you most, without having to look for a new job:
  • Focus on what is going well rather than what isn’t, and see how far you can nudge things towards the positive.
  • Conduct a quick audit of what you have done over the past 12 months, cataloguing your achievements.
  • Ask for a review meeting, and don’t go in with any kind of complaint but instead have a clear positive idea for how you can enjoy your job more and add more value. This again will give you a healthy lifestyle.